Other Resources

Helpful Sites:

Women–Online help, support groups & resources:


Men–Online help, support groups & resources:


For Couples


Online Video Messages for Men


For Pastors/Leaders–Private phone counseling & resources:


Internet surveillance software for filtering/accountability:


Men & Women–Tool for emotional health & healing:

Meg’s Favorites:

Meg’s Favorite Worship CD:

Kate White Music
Kate White Music

Meg’s Favorite Artist:

Lani Kent
Artist Lani Kent

Additional Reading:
Books Related to or about Sexual Addiction: For Women
Deceived: Facing Sexual Betrayal, Lies, and Secrets by Claudia Black

Mending A Shattered Heart by Stephanie Carns

Living with Your Husband’s Secret Wars by Marsha Means
(Good book for wives. valuable information about SA.)

My Husband Has a Secret by Molly Ann Miller
(Good first book provides much needed hope in one woman’s story.)

Shattered Vows: Hope and Healing for Women Who Have Been Sexually Betrayed by Debra Laaser
(Another Good book for wives.)

Every Heart Restored by by Fred Stoeker and Brenda Stoeker

Surviving Your Worst Nightmare by Patti Snodgrass

Making a Quilt out of Cobwebs: A Journey from Betrayal to Hope by Georgia Miller

Unfaithful: Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity by Gary and Mona Shriver
The Wounded Woman: Hope and Healing for Those Who Hurt by Dr. Steve Stephens and Pam Vredevelt

Handbook for Hurting Wives by S Cervantes and J Daughtery

Intimate Treason: Healing the Trauma for Partners Confronting Sex addiction by Claudia Black and Cara Tripodi

Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal Paperback by Barbara Steffens and Marsha Means

Unfaithful: Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity Paperback by Gary Shriver and Mona Shriver

When His Secret Sin Breaks Your Heart: Letters to Hurting Wives by Kathy Gallagher

Books Related to or about Sexual Addiction: For Men

Pure Desire by Pastor Ted Roberts
(Good book for husbands and wives. Picture of what is happening to the addict.)

When Good Men are Tempted by Bill Perkins

I Surrender All: Rebuilding a Marriage Broken by Pornography by Clay Crosse

Grace-Based Recovery Paperback by Jonathan Daugherty

Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction by Mark Laaser PH.D
(Good book for deeper understanding of core issues that drive SA.)

Steering Clear by Earl Wilson

Every Man’s Battle: Winning the War on Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker

Don’t Call It Love by Patrick Carnes

Wild at Heart by John Eldredge
Lonely All The Time by Ralph Earle, Gregory Crow & Kevin Osborne

The Caged Truth: Breaking Out, Breaking Free by Jim Dwyer

Resources about Relational Boundaries:

Two Sides Of Love by Gary Smalley & John Trent

Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend

Boundaries in Marriage by Cloud and Townsend
(Either or both boundaries books are a must read.)

Safe People by Cloud and Townsend
(Good book for women who feel like victims or who struggle with resentments.)

Love Is a Choice: The Definitive Book on Letting Go of Unhealthy Relationships by Robert Hemfelt, Frank Minirth, & Paul Meier

Telling Yourself the Truth by William Backus

Can My Marriage be Saved?: True Stories of Saved Marriages Paperback by Mae and Erika Chambers

Resources for Personal Healing:

The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations for Codependents by Melody Beattie

Then God Created Woman by Dr. Deborah Newman
(Good book for women ready to deal with parallel issues and learn who they are in Christ.)

Codependent No More by Melodie Beatty
(Another must read for wives.)

False Intimacy by Dr. Harry Schaumburg

The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans

When Your Past Is Hurting Your Present by Sue Augustine

Heart to Heart About Men by Nancy Groom

From Bondage to Bonding by Nancy Groom

Restoring the Fallen by Earl and Sandy Wilson
(Good book for couples ready for a spiritual care team.)
ISBN: 0830816194
The Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren

The Sacred Romance by Brent Curtis and John Eldredge (Good book for going deeper with the Lord.)

Every Woman’s Battle by Stephen Arterburn and Shannon Ethridge
(Good book for women struggling with sexual addiction.)

Into Abba’s Arms by Sandra D. Wilson


Streams In The Desert by L.B. Cowan

My Utmost For His Highest by Oswald Chambers

Resources related to Spiritual Warfare & Personal Healing:

Praying God’s Word by Beth Moore

The Bondage Breaker by Neil T. Anderson